6 Days Of Relational Transformation
Liberating Love Retreat
LOVE | SHADOW ALCHEMY | COMMUNITY
Next Retreat:
January 6-11, 2027
Pai, Thailand
Early Bird Pricing Available Until November 16th
Apply Now6 Days Of Relational Transformation
Liberating Love is a 6-day transformational immersion designed for people who want real depth in their relationships — emotionally, somatically, and intimately. We work with the shadow, nervous system intelligence, Tantric nondual wisdom, ritual, and embodied intimacy in a way that is grounded, spacious, and genuinely alive.
Whether you are new to this work or already experienced with Tantra, embodiment, or relational practice, this container is crafted to meet you where you are — and invite you deeper.
No fluff. No bypassing. No performance. We're here for honest connection, brave inner work, and moments of beauty, play, and truth, delivered with depth, nuance, and soul.
Join us as we explore together how to become more liberated in love and relating.
TRANSFORM YOUR RELATIONSHIPS
This retreat is designed to support you to have deeper, more fulfilling, secure and nourishing relationships that support your own personal growth, deeper intimacy with others and collective transformation.
You've done the 'Personal development' ... Now it's time for 'Relational Development'
Through embodied practices, communication tools, somatic shadow work, play and ritual we will go on a journey to explore how we can love more freely and devotionally.
We move beyond feel-good workshops into deep shadow processes, nervous system embodiment, and somatic integration — tools that help you discover what's subconscious, release old patterns, and open into more freedom, authenticity and relational aliveness.
We explore themes like:
- Boundaries
- Attachment
- Defence mechanisms and hooks
- Vulnerability
- Mindful communication
- The power of the heart
- Relationships as a spiritual path
- Healing in love
- The power of play
PREPARE YOURSELF FOR EPIC LOVE
If you're calling in deeper love, more empowering connections to others, secure relationships and a sense of belonging in community - this is the space for you. Whether you're single and looking to call in epic love, you're in a relationship already and wanting to go deeper, or you're curious and wanting new friends, tools and inspiration that will serve your relationships for years to come, this retreat will serve you on that journey.
You'll be invited to explore practices that are:
- Layered — accessible for newer participants and rich for experienced ones. The space will go as deep as you're willing to go.
- Embodied — grounded in the body and somatic wisdom, not just ideas or peak experiences.
- Relational — focused on how you actually meet others and yourself, not just in romance but in all of life. We take a perspective of interconnectedness, transpersonal healing and seeing the group as your guru.
- Integrated — supporting insights that land in real life. We bring together head, heart and soul. Spirituality that is integrated, grounded and empowering without the fluff and performance.
This is a space to soften and stretch.
To be held and challenged with care and support.
This retreat has been inspired by our Liberated Love Principles — you can download the free PDF further down this page.
PAI, THAILAND
The retreat will be held at a private space in Pai, Thailand, overlooking the mountains and with access to a pool. (Photos and more down the page!)
Pai is a small mountain town in Northern Thailand famous for its slow pace, hot springs, waterfalls and artisan community.
You can fly into Chiang Mai and take the scenic mountain road (or a short flight) on to Pai. January is high season and there are many wonderful events, festivals and offerings to enjoy before or after the retreat if you decide to join us!
The Container
Liberating Love is held as a sacred, human, and grounded space.
We prioritize:
- Consent and clear agreements
- Emotional maturity and accountability
- Curiosity over fixing
- Inclusion, respect, and diversity of experience
This is not a performance space. It's a place to arrive as you are — messy, tender, open, curious. We honour authenticity, truth and care for one another in this space. You don't need to perform as some perfect spiritual persona or healed guru. Come with an open heart, a willingness to be vulnerable and a desire to know the power of love and intimacy in a new way.
Held by Luna and Tristen, a couple deeply devoted to this work in their own lives and relationship — not just as facilitators but as practitioners who live and breathe it daily.
Come Solo, or Bring a Partner
This retreat welcomes individuals and couples alike — it is designed for singles on a solo journey, but you're welcome to come with a partner and go on the journey together. If you're looking for a couples-focused retreat please see our Tantric Intimacy retreat.
All genders and sexualities welcome. This retreat is inclusive for individuals, couples, Queer/LGBT folks, polyamorous/ENM people and those from various backgrounds.
What We'll Explore Together
The retreat weaves together various modalities, including:
Circle Work
Exploring present moment experience, reflections and support from your peers in circle. This brings together elements of 'Forum', constellation work, circling, authentic relating and somatic shadow work.
Shadow work & inquiry
Meeting hidden patterns, defenses, and longings with presence through somatic shadow work. We explore what is hidden, what emerges in relationship and how we can transform and integrate these patterns.
Somatic and nervous system practices
Learning to stay regulated, open, and connected through the body to create safety and attunement.
Conscious relating & communication
Practical tools for honesty, boundaries, and intimacy — mostly Authentic Relating and Non-Violent Communication.
Neo-Tantric & meditative practices
To cultivate deep presence, explore polarity, devotion, and embodied awareness.
Ritual & group processes
To go deeper into non-ordinary awareness states.
Play, movement, and dance
Because humans learn and integrate through the body and enjoyment.
Waterdance and aquatic bodywork
New for this retreat: a full day devoted to connection in a natural hotspring pool — a deeply relaxing, meditative water-based practice of being held and moved through water, releasing tension and inviting surrender at a nervous-system level.
All practices are offered with clear framing, consent, and choice.
Learn more about our workGet a taste of the work
Download our Liberated Love Principles PDF to get our core relating principles and get inspired for this path.
9 SACRED RELATING PRINCIPLES
Put in your details to get access to our free PDF
The Journey
Here is an overview of the themes for each day, taking you on a transformational journey of rebirth and liberation.
Some days are full days (morning to evening) while some start after lunch so you can have time to integrate, relax, sleep in and connect with your fellow participants.
Day 1 :
Arrival & Orientation
Wednesday January 6
We begin after lunch and set the container for the coming days. We'll get to know each other, create group cohesion and break the ice with some games and play.
We'll start to dive into the foundational practices and tools that will support us for the journey to come, set our intentions and start to connect with each other.
Time: 2pm-9pm
Dinner included
Day 2 :
Transformational Relating
Thursday January 7
Meeting what's hidden, with honesty and care.
This day is focused on how we’re showing up in relationship, our perspectives and approaches to communication and our commitment to truth.
We'll look at relationship patterns, the shadow, conscious communication and being with our emotions with others.
You'll start exploring circle work and how you meet others in relationships, what wounding patterns you default to and how you can move beyond them
Time: 10am-9pm
Open lunch break
Dinner included
Day 3 :
Devotional Love
Friday January 8
Here we explore the principles of the heart, how we can step into a deeper way of relating that is devotional, compassionate and transpersonal.
Coming home to the body, and to reverence.
We go deeper into somatic and nervous system practices — learning to stay regulated, open and connected through the body, building safety and attunement.
We weave in Neo-Tantric and meditative practices to cultivate deep presence, explore polarity, devotion, and embodied awareness.
Together we breathe love into old wounds of separation and fear, discovering the art of being present and holding space — for ourselves and for each other — without the need to fix or change what arises.
Time: 2pm-9pm
Dinner included
Day 4 :
Sacred Intimacy
Saturday January 9
Going deeper through ritual, and coming alive through play.
For this day, we'll explore topics like desire, conscious sensuality and play. We'll explore what prevents us from showing up empowered and authentic, how we work with the intensity of desire and the polarity of trust and surrender.
Ritual and group processes take us deeper into non-ordinary awareness states. We balance this with play, movement and dance, because humans learn and integrate through the body and through enjoyment, not just through processing.
This is a day of embodiment, empowerment and celebration — all offered with clear framing, consent and choice.
Time: 10am-9pm
Open lunch break
Dinner included
Day 5 :
Surrender
Sunday January 10
Today we head to the Pai Water Temple for a day of aquatic exploration.
A full day devoted to Aquatic Bodywork and Water contact dance — a profoundly relaxing, meditative practice of being held, cradled and moved through warm water in a beautiful natural hotspring pool.
Waterdance works on a deep nervous-system level, inviting a rare quality of surrender and trust as you're held and gently moved by a facilitator. Many people describe it as one of the most healing and blissful experiences of their lives — a return to a womb-like state of safety and flow.
No swimming skills or water confidence needed — you'll be fully supported throughout. This is a day of deep rest, release and receiving.
2pm-9pm
Dinner included
Day 6 :
Final Ritual & Integration
Monday January 11
The final day will be a mystery - the plan will emerge depending on the themes of the group, what is most alive and needed at the time to wrap up the experience.
Towards the afternoon we move to Integration, and a beautiful closing ritual and celebration to bring together everything we've journeyed through.
We come back into gratitude and celebration of what's been built — closing the space together with love and potency.
Time: 10am-9pm
Open lunch break
Dinner included
EXPAND YOUR RELATIONAL INTELLIGENCE
Many of us were not given great examples of what it is to love, relate and be in community. Most of the way people communicate is rife with subtle manipulations, agendas and unclear expectations. Many of us are either avoidant or anxiously attached. As much as we want love, deep friendships and community, it can seem distant at times.
This is where relational intelligence work comes in. You re-wire old patterns, learn new tools and get a new imprint of what relating can be like. Just reading books or consuming content is not enough to create real transformation - we need to be doing this work together. Because wounds made in relationship can only be healed in relationship.
In our spaces the group intelligence emerges and we learn and evolve together. The facilitation creates a structure but the person-to-person connections are where the magic happens. Each person in the retreat becomes your guru, offering you insights and a mirror to explore our desires, needs, projections and boundaries.
We also learn to feel safe in connection on a nervous system level - to imprint a secure attachment and see what is possible. We learn to recieve, listen to our bodies and see what we need to lean in to love more and more.
Your Facilitators for this Journey
Luna Agneya
Organiser and facilitator
Luna is the lead facilitator and visionary behind the Liberating Love Collective, Headmistress of the Sensual Arts School and creator of the Bindu Breath Awakening method. She is the author of 'The Liberated Sensualist - The Modern Tantrika's Guide to Embodied Awakening'
Certified Sex, love and relationship coach, somatic shadow work facilitator and somatic practitioner with extensive training in neo and traditional Tantra, Luna has both lived experience and professional training to draw upon.
She’s been creating events and spaces for sensual liberation and intimate connection for over 10 years and is known for her grounded, playful, deep and transformative experiences she offers that gracefully balance deep wisdom, trauma-informed emotional safety and the right dose of challenge to support embodied liberation and a coming home to our authentic essence.
She works alongside her husband and co-creator Tristen Tashi who she has been learning from, co-creating with and inspired by for 6 beautiful years.
Triss Tashi
Facilitator
He is the co-founder of the Liberating Love Collective and is dedicated to creating spaces where individuals can explore and redefine their relationships with themselves, others and society.
His sessions are deep and authentic, drawing on classical tantra, neo-tantra, and modern healing modalities to foster environments of deep introspection, transformative experiences, and communal growth.
Not one to take life too seriously, he likes to incorporate play and humour into his spaces wherever he can because he believes that play is an essential part of living a full life as it brings joy, deepens connection with others, and can help us uncover hidden aspects of our being.
Hester
Water Facilitator
Hester works in a grounded, attentive and intuitive way, informed by her background in behavioral science alongside somatic and aquatic training. Since 2021, together with her partner Teun Melis, she has been offering Aquatic Arts education, with a focus on Aquatic Therapy and Waterdance.
Her aquatic work is guided by the ongoing study of movement in water and influences from schools of FlyDeeper, Wataflow, Healing Dance.
Her practice is shaped by training in Taoist arts, Breathwork, and Biodynamic Craniosacral Therapy.
This Retreat Is For You If...
- You're curious about love and intimacy beyond societies scripts and roles
- You know more is possible for how humans can relate, and you're ready to explore it
- You value authenticity, honesty, care and connection.
- You want real tools for relating that can serve you not only in loverships but with family, collegues etc.
- You're ready to meet your shadow patterns with compassion and honesty and do the difficult work of being radically honest with yourself
- You've explored some spirituality, embodiment work, Tantra etc and want a space to go deeper than you could in a shorter workshop.
- You value consent, emotional safety, and nervous system awareness as well as valuing personal responsibility for changing your relationships
- You're calling in big love in your life, whether it's a soul-mate lovership, a community or just more ease in how you relate to people
- You're ready to move beyond drama, projections and insecurity into secure love.
- You believe in respecting humans as equals no matter their gender, race or sexual preferences and you want to relate heart-to-heart, soul-to-soul, beyond the trappings of cultural narratives and expectations.
No previous experience with relating work is required — and if you do have experience, you won't be bored! The practices go as deep as you're willing to take them.
We recommend you have prior experience with embodiment work, meditation and personal development work before attending.
What You May Leave With...
Participants often leave with:
- An ability to hold more profound space for others that is nourishing and even healing
- A deeper sense of self-trust and authenticity in relational dynamics
- Greater ease and honesty in relationships
- Awareness of unconscious patterns — and how to work with them
- Practical tools that will serve your relationships for years to come
- A felt experience of connection that is grounded, spacious, and real
- More capacity for being with relational tension and paradox
- New friendships and connections with others devoted to conscious relating
Location and Logistics
The retreat will be located at Lilosa in Pai, overlooking the mountains and with access to a pool and a new workshop area.
This is a non-residential retreat so you will stay in your own accommodation in Pai and come in to the space for the sessions. There are many places to stay near to the space, only a couple of minutes by scooter or you can stay in town which is only 7 minutes drive.
There is one bungalow available to stay on site, which is preferred for someone who doesn't drive a scooter and needs the accessibility of being walking distance to the venue.
Upon application we will provide you with the exact location and a list of nearby accommodation options.
Getting There
Fly into Chiang Mai International Airport (CNX) — well-connected with direct flights from most major Asian hubs, and easy onward connections from further afield. You can also fly to Bangkok and get the bus or train up to Chiang Mai.
From Chiang Mai, Pai is a scenic ~3 hour drive through the mountains, or a short domestic flight (very limited availability on some days). Some prefer to rent a scooter and drive while most people take the cheaper group van option.
We recommend arriving a day or two before the retreat begins so you have time to settle in and reset before we start.
Shortly after the retreat is the wonderful Gaia Beats Festival in Chiang Mai, so you can make it a fun trip to join both experiences.
Get inspired
Explore some of the articles Luna has written about Tantra and Relationships to get a feel for what we'll be uncovering in the week together.
Group as Guru
Musings after our last retreat about the power of group wisdom and transmitting secure love.
The evolution from Neo-Tantra to Somatic-Tantra
The modern Tantric movement is taking a turn and coming back to it's roots yet in a new way.
What it really takes to Trust
Surrendering in love requires a deep devotion to embodying trustworthiness
The Investment
6 Days in Pai, Thailand
The retreat includes the full 6-day program, one meal per day, and tea & snacks throughout the event.
It also includes the day at the Pai Water Temple with our special guest facilitator.
Accommodation is separate from the cost — there is a single bungalow (king bed so can be shared with a lover or friend) on-site that is an extra €50, but for most people you will book your own nearby accommodation and drive in for sessions.
Upon application we'll send you the location and a list of nearby accommodation options.
Early Bird: €720 until November 16th.
Standard price: €820 after November 16th.
A discount for Thai Nationals is available — contact us at [email protected] for details.
Feeling that deep YES to this journey?
Fill in the application and we'll follow up with you soon. Upon application we'll send you the exact location and a list of nearby accommodation options.
Tight on cash but still want to attend? We have one half-priced, low-income space available per retreat, in exchange for helping with setup/pack down and small tasks during the retreat. Email us at [email protected] if you'd like to apply for this spot.
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