LibeRateD LOveRS

"Love, enjoyed by the ignorant, Becomes Bondage,
That very same love, tasted by one with understanding, Brings Liberation.
Enjoy all the pleasures of love fearlessly, For the sake of liberation!”
Treatise on the Purification of the Mind (Cittavisuddhiprakarana)

Love can be a sanctuary, but for many it is a battle field. What is it to merge one life with another? One complex inner world with another?

Love breaks us, shapes us and makes us into something new. Ancient Yoginis and Mystics recognised that relationship can be a path of Awakening if we consciously utilise this space for spiritual evolution

Many of us have not received the transmission of what the potential of love can be, and we struggle through childhood wounding's, destructive patterns, attachment ruptures, dying Eros and power struggles. There are however tools, practices and approaches that can transform this minefield into a transformational journey of liberation and awakened Love, should you be willing to go deep enough.... 

 

OFFERINGS FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP JOURNEY

OF LIBERATED LOVE 

 

If you're drawn to Sacred Sensuality, Tantra, Erotic Mysticism and the path of Embodied Liberation, here are my offerings to you.

I have offerings to support various stages of your journey and various budgets. 

 

Liberated Lovers Principals
Courses
Membership
Relationship Transformation
Weddings and Sacred Union Ceremonies

Liberated Lovers Principals

Free PDF

Relationships are an Awakening Goldmine

 

Our relationships reveal all that is usually hidden, all that we repress and all we deny. The way we show up in our relationship will reflect all areas of our lives, and we can alchemise this path for our awakening and for the benefit of all beings.

In this free guide, we share our core principals for Liberated Love and Relationships. 

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Courses

I have some yummy new courses planned, but for now all the pre-recorded online courses are on The Sensual Arts School

We have a main course for couples that will soon be replaced, but you can still get it here

Tantric Intimacy for 3 deep-dive sessions on relational foundations

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Sacred Intimate Bodywork  for learning erotic healing massage (only for TI graduates)

The MembeRShip

A monthly Temple for Lovers

 

 

Coming soon

RelatiOnShip tRanSfORmatiOn

Therapeutic Coaching, SacredSexuality,ShadowWork & RelationalSupport

Looking for professional guidance and personalised support for your relationship? 

I have trained in multiple modalities to support people to move through their resistences, shame, fear and egoic blindspots to find inner freedom and deep bliss.

This is not just 'advice' or simply a workshop. My sessions are targeted to support you both to move through your specific relational patterns using practices like somatics, parts work, aspecting, shadow work, meditation, breathwork and ritual. Usually sessions are a mix of therepeutic process and intimacy tools so you get the healing and the bliss!

I have been guiding people professionally for over 7 years now and have thousands of hours of training and practice in this field. 

My work is Queer, Poly, SW and disability friendly. 

The Journey

I work with couples for a minimum of 3 months at a time. This is because the depth of work I offer is not simple bandaid solutions or advice but a dive into the psyche, the body and the soul. I specialise in helping long-term couples rekindle desire, explore the potential of their erotic connection and move through deeper patterns in their relationship so they can come into a deeper state of Love and Connection

The Love Liberation Path

Transformation isn't linear—it's a spiral journey of infinite deepening. My signature method looks at this process through three distinct phases, each requiring different support and understanding. My support meets you exactly where you are and guides you through your unique path of growth.

Each level is a minimum of 3 months, though usually we take at least a year to integrate each level of the work, timings will depend on your commitment to practice, self discipline and how much work you've previously done. 

Read more about the method here

Level 1: Foundation & Expansion

Desire & Play • Somatic Wisdom • Empowerment

You're curious to start stepping into 'the work' and exploring the possibility of what love and romance can be! Whether you're still in the 'honeymoon' phase or you've been together for years and you're looking to step onto the path and explore the potential of your relationship, we all need to start with the foundations. In level one we focus on what we are truly desiring, how to discover and share it with our partners in a way that creates expansion and possibility rather than pressure and stress. We build the tools for somatic attunement and co-regulation so we can support one another and find peace even through challenging topics and situations that may arise. We also explore our boundaries and how we can become more empowered to know and speak our needs clearly. Here we create trust, strong communication and embodied sensitivity so we can hold each other lovingly, truly see and feel each other and prepare for adding deeper erotic intimacy practices. 

Expect: Communication practicesSomatic attunement and co-regulation, partnered meditation, sensuality and conscious touch work, boundaries work, desire mapping, embodied consent practices, emotional alchemy, breathwork andTantra foundations. 

Level 2: The Underworld

Ecstasy • The Shadow • Authentic Truth

When you're ready to go deeper, we face what's been hidden and repressed in the shadow. The Underworld calls us all in our journey towards liberation and this is the stage that really requires personalised support. In a relationship this phase often shows up 1-2 years into the relationship where our patterns surface, the new relationship energy wares off and we're in a power struggle. In longer term relationships we may step into the underworld later when we're really ready to make a big change and transform our old patterns. This phase involves shadow work, looking deeper at childhood/parent patterns that are replaying in your relationship and the stories and traumas we're holding that fracture trust. We also explore how you can surrender deeper to pleasure, joy and bliss through ecstatic practices as you crack open more and more, and dive into energetic techniqes and polarity to create more fire and passion in your relationship. It's often a challenging, but necessary phase for true transformation. 

Expect: Sexual yoga and pleasure practices, partnered shadow work, polarity play, conscious kink, inner child work, re-parenting work, energy play, rituals and other practices for inner integration. 

Level 3: Devotional Love

Devotion • Unconditional Love • Awakening

Once we've made it through the underworld, we're no longer relating from our wounding but from two whole, empowered humans embodying love. Here, the work becomes a way of being and we step into a new level of relationship. You'll take your sexual practice to new depths, explore deeper subtleties of polarity and relational energetics and communicate from deeper truth and devotion. This is where your partner becomes your Guru, where you transcend many of the messy dynamics based on trauma and step into a deeper layer of unconditional love and awakened relating. You start to see the dynamics as sacred portals to new levels of devotion and commitment as a path of true freedom. 

Expect: Subtle energetics, erotic rituals and trance states, deeper communication, cultivating lasting passion and working through lingering patterns and complexes inhibiting the true depth of your love. 

 

While this map is presented linear, it is a spiral because we come back time and time again to each level for different aspects of our life, integrating deeper understandings and building on the foundations.

There is often a temptation to rush ahead and seek the upper levels but when the foundations are shaky we can fall into chaos and despair. 

 

As my clients you have a private portal on this website where the live calls are held (option to be recorded and uploaded), notes are kept and additional practices are added. Usually I record 1-2 additional practices for clients a month, and sometimes include access to additional courses or bonus resources. You also are able to contact me between sessions with questions or concerns, so the support is not limited to the session time. 

I only work with a maximum of 4 clients at a time, as this is deep and intensive work. 

Let's connect

Get started by booking a consultation and alignment call with me which costs €100 and we'll discuss your desires, needs and what will support you on your journey forward, whether it's working with me or someone else.

My support prices are 'sliding scale' meaning the price depends on your income bracket.

Generally, I work with clients 2 times a month over 3 months, with sessions 90 minutes long. Which costs €1900-3200, though sometimes packages are customised, so prices can vary. Many couples decide to work 6 months at a time. 

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UniQue SaCReD UniOn

Conscious Weddings, Commitment Ceremonies,  Devotional Ritual Creation and Support

 

Your celebration should be as unique as your love- get professional support to plan this special experience and deepen this rite of passage!

One-of-a-kind conscious weddings, commitment rituals and ceremonies 

If you're on the path of devotional, committed love and you're wanting to celebrate your love through a ceremony, you'll find yourself on quite the journey!

Marriage is considered one of the major life milestones, and not only is it a big task to plan, organize and create the 'big day' itself... the rite of passage into committed relationship is also a deeply emotional transformational process. 

Your relationship and love is so unique- and your celebration can be as unique as you are and a true expression of your love together! Most people have generic, cookie-cutter weddings that lack the personal depth and meaning that this ritual can hold.

If you're wanting to create something special and personally meaningful, I can support you on this journey- from ritual design to mood boards and inspiration, speeches and processes to take this journey deeper. 

Services

I create custom packages for couples depending on their needs, desires and budgets

  • Ceremony/ritual design- planning the flow of the ceremony and the ritual elements you want to use
  • Mood board and event creation
  • Pre-wedding rituals and experiences to help you drop in to the experience
  • Emotional support and coaching around topics arising in relation to your wedding
  • Non-traditional commitment ritual planning for poly/enm groups
  • Being the ceremony guide and event organiser at the wedding/ceremony 
  • Conscious 'hens' and 'stags' alternatives
  • Post-wedding integration and rituals

I'm also open to hearing what else you may need related to this and seeing if I can offer it or if it's something we can collaborate with another pro about. 

Ideally we work together over 6 months or a year with the whole journey from the initial engagement celebration, moving through your desires and needs for the wedding, supporting you on whatever arises as you move towards this threshold together and integrating after the wedding. 

Queer friendly, Poly-Friendly and totally customizable care

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