Have the Conscious Relationship of your Dreams…
You already know your relationship could offer you both more. More depth, more truth, more connection... You feel the longing in your heart and soul for a truly conscious relationship where you can evolve together year after year.
You're with each other for a reason. You've felt those blissful moments of profound connection that feel sacred and soul-nourishing.
You're conscious people. You've shown up so well for your own path and 'doing the work'. You'll meditate, journal, go to a yoga class, attend a full moon ritual - but all that personal development work seems to slip when it comes to your relationships.
Maybe you've read some books on communication and relational growth but they don't fully integrate into how you talk to each other and you catch yourselves sounding like your parents (or maybe your 13 year old selves).
Maybe you've done some workshops or even a retreat or two and had some delicious experiences but you don't actually practice them at home, and the sparkle faded into the mundane of life.
Perhaps you've even tried therapy but talking it out didn't make the deeper shift you long for.
Still, the same old patterns keep kicking up and getting in the way of your love.
Still, you find yourselves bickering like teenagers and struggling to move through the same arguments that pop up time and time again.
It's one thing to intellectually understand your patterns...
It's another to re-write them and actually live your relationship from a different state of consciousness.
And it's a whole different thing to learn to see your relationship as part of your spiritual path, your issues as initiations, and to have the wisdom and tools to navigate not just what you're moving through now but all future tensions, ruptures and challenges.
To embody a different kind of love that is awakened, honest and embodied.
You want your relationship to be a reflection and amplification of the depth of your wisdom.
You want it to be a vehicle for something greater: a place where you're truly seen, and met in your depths.
A place you grow together year after year.
A relationship aligned to your desire to live as love in this world.
And there is a pathway that invites you into this. To becoming Awakened Lovers
THE CORE COMPONENTS OF THE JOURNEY
Embodied Inquiry
Combining nondual inquiry processes with somatic embodiment so you're not just re-wiring old stories but also your nervous systems capacity for conflict and repair
Conscious Communication
Learn skills to relate on a deeper level and communicate with clarity, skill and love. Inspired by Authentic Relating, Non-Violent Communication and The Yoga of Intimacy
Tantric Meditations
2-body meditation practices to witness, deepen presence and bring more depth to your relationship. Let your partner be a gateway to awakened awareness.
Relational Shadow Work
Explore your defence mechanisms, patterns and unconscious behaviours fueled by the Ego which impact your relationship and learn to alchemise them
Your relationship becomes the path
Sacred Relating is a path where we see relationships not just as companionship but as containers for our spiritual growth and evolution. In a sacred relationship, you are devoted not only to the person but to something greater than the two of you- evolving, awakening and transforming together.
In some Tantric lineages this was known as 'The Path of the Tantric Consort'. Your beloved and you show up in practice together as mirrors, alchemists and devotees. Instead of meditating alone, you meditate with your beloved. Instead of shadow work alone, your partner supports you.
Awakened Relating means using everything that happens between you, the beautiful and the brutal, as fuel for transformation. What's in the way is the way. You're here, together, for a reason and all that emerges is asking to be brought into the light of loving awareness.
Your partner becomes your most honest mirror. Instead of avoiding the friction, you get curious about it, and let it show you what's ready to be seen, healed and loved.
TANTRA · THE VIEW
Love as a spiritual path
Influenced by the essence teachings of the Tantric Path, this course brings the perspectives of spiritual awakening, understanding of the Ego and the path of transformation into our relational work.
The goal is to see clearly, to transform body and mind, and to become liberated - together.
SOMATICS - EMBODIMENT
Change lives in the body
Our patterns, defences and attachments live in the nervous system, not just the mind. Somatic practice helps you regulate, feel more and stay present with each other, so insight becomes embodied transfomation.
We weave this into our teachings, understanding that presence and regulation are part of the same path.
CONSCIOUS RELATING - THE PRACTICE
Skills for real life
Conscious communication, shadow work and ritual give you the tools to meet each other honestly, move through conflict, and keep opening into deeper intimacy, year after year.
We bring together tools from various schools of conscious relating, shadow work perspectives and personal development work.
Great lovers are not born. They are made -
Through devotional effort and journeying through the initiations of love.
So you can go from…
- From getting stuck in the same arguments over and over again (and sounding oddly like your parents in the process)... to breaking through old patterns and stories so you can see and communicate with clarity and compassion.
- From avoiding uncomfortable conversations and rocking the boat ... to knowing how to bring your edgy truths to your beloved with skill so they can truly see and know you.
- From struggling to stay present in intimacy because you have 1000 things on your mind .... to knowing how to skillfully drop into deep yogic presence and create a depth of connection that seems to alter the flow of time as you melt into one another
- From triggers activating your ego defences and wounding patterns ... to having the capacity to pause, reflect and choose how to respond with love in a way that feels aligned to your truest, highest self.
- From bracing, deflecting or shutting down every time things get hard… to using the hard moments as fuel for your growth and bravely walking into the fires with the right tools and perspectives to make these moments sooo much easier.
- From ruptures that leave distance between you and sleeping on separate sides of the bed… to coming back to love, and to each other, more quickly and skillfully. Alchemising the hard moments into more truth, love and depth.
- From feeling there is more mystical potential and depth available in your lovership... to having the skills to go there and deepen year after year.
Who you're learning from...
Luna Agneya & Tristen Tashi
Luna and Tristen have been together for over 6 years, married for 2.
Lockdown lovers who turned out to be each others perfect match. Both devoted long-term tantrikas and spiritual practitioners, as well as arty adventurous weirdos with a shared love of bass music, festival culture, metal and activism.
What began as a casual 'situationship' continued to deepen year by year as they showed up for each other and themselves, willingly walking into the fires of the underworld together, meeting their patterns and committing to growing together. Over time they began teaching together and supporting hundreds of other couples to evolve their relationships.
Luna is a certified VITA Tantric sex, love and relationship coach and Sensual Arts Facilitator with over 12 years of experience in the field, and the author of The Liberated Sensualist.
Tristen is a Transformational Embodiment coach for men and a fellow facilitator, as well as a DJ and experience business and marketing professional.
They have both been journeying the Tantric path since before they met, and deepened into the erotic mysteries of love and union together. They have been teaching together for 4 years now and love to share their wisdom.
They're also both kinky, queer souls who love to transcend the boxes and limitations, exploring the full spectrum of love and eroticism together.
Imagine…
…coming to your partner with a truth that feels so scary, being sure they'll be upset or even want to leave you if you say it, and instead they breathe, listen, and say, “Thank you for telling me.” and having the truth actually bring you closer.
…noticing old patterns and stories coming up in an argument and being able to pause, name the story, connect to your present moment embodied experience and express what is happening in a deeper way, with your partner supporting it.
…feeling so deeply seen and met in your relationship because you learned to express yourself in a clean and clear way that your partner can recieve and work with.
... knowing you can face whatever challenges life throws at you with love because you have skills that support you to connect and repair with love and awareness.
…a relationship where your partner is your most honest reflection and your closest support, and where intimacy like you've never known becomes possible, because you've both stopped hiding and can meet each other fully as you are.
We're not going to lie...
This course is not our easiest or sexiest (but we've made it juicy when we can!)
It'll ask you to face your shadows and commit to Truth.
It'll ask you to learn a new way of communicating that can feel like learning a new language.
But the rewards are so, so worth it.
Less suffering. Real Intimacy. More Depth.
The stuff that only comes through radically honest relationships.
Are you ready to choose Truth over comfort, and let it bring your into deeper authenticity and intimacy?
Are you ready to let each challenge be fuel for growing together?
Are you ready to be seen, really seen - all of you...
and to see your partner the same way?
WITHIN EACH MODULE
Each module moves through the 3 components.
You begin with the teaching, you practise the skill, and then you take it into a ritual to let it sink into body and soul.
This allows the transformation to happen through mind, body and soul.
If you want to do this course as an intensive, that makes around two hours a week.
If you're more time-pressed, do the lecture and lab one week, the ritual the next week, for a 1 hr per week commitment.
Loverflix
~30 MINUTES
The teaching talk for the module.
Curl up and watch it together and get inspired by the transmission of each module.
Love Lab
~ 40 MINUTES
Your workshop for skill-building.
Here you practice the skills, experiment and explore together. No pressure for it to be sexy here, it's about learning.
Temple Ritual
~ AN HOUR
Your date-night.
An embodied transmission that takes the work deeper. Here we bring ritual elements, deep presence and eros into the space.
THE JOURNEY THROUGH THE UPPER GATEWAY
Truth. Awareness. Presence
Six modules.
6-12 weeks of journeying into the depths of Awakened Relating
1
Committing to Truth
2
Communicating with Clarity
3
Dissolving Defences
4
Rupture Alchemy
5
Loving beyond Duality
6
Living as Awakened Love
MODULE 1
Committing to Truth
Awakened lovers practice Truth-Based relating. Not living in a comfortable illusion but committing to truth as a spiritual path.
Truth is less obvious than it sounds. Can you separate subjective and objective truth? Can you recognise projections and filters? Can you recognise when the truth is weaponised or manipulated? And do you really even know your own Truth?
Most of us aren't intentionally lying; we're managing the truth, softening or controlling responses and delivering without skill. We must learn to wield truth with love if we want true intimacy.
This module is where you commit to truth over comfort: knowing your truth, speaking it, and receiving your partner's. You start to hone the skills requires and commit to the process that will dissolve illusion and ego.
LOVERFLIX
Sharing, Receiving and Discerning Truth
LOVE LAB
Noticing Meditation & the Heart Share
TEMPLE RITUAL
The Naked Truth Ritual
MODULE 2
Communicating with Clarity
Building on the last module, we go deeper into how we speak truth and communicate our needs, values, desires and experiences with clarity and skill. Bringing together our 2 favourite communication methods, NonViolent Communication and Authentic Relating, to offer frameworks that help our connections without feeling robotic or cold.
Communication is a practice, not just a lesson. Like learning a new language, your patterns only change when you speak it, again and again. Reading a book on communication is not enough to change, you must bring it into practice and rewire your communication patterns.
We'll deepen into separating our experience from our story, learning active listening and reflection, reframing judgments and also experience a more embodied, present moment practice of communicating in devotional ritual to feel fully seen, heart and met.
LOVERFLIX
A New Language For Love
LOVE LAB
Communication Lab
TEMPLE RITUAL
Seeing, Feeling and Desiring
MODULE 3
Dissolving Defences
Here we start to dive into the shadow and look at our defence mechanisms and patterns that keep us in separation, protection and control.
We all have ways of protecting ourselves in love. They form long before we meet our partners, and they show up at exactly the moments we most want to connect. If we aren't aware of these patterns, if we can't recognise them, bring compassion and acceptance and understand what we're really needing beneath them, they will control our relationships and limit our love.
Here we'll introduce you to our own 12 wounding archetypes and how they polarise with one another. You'll see which patterns you inherited and what the underlying core needs are so that you can dissolve the patterns (without becoming a push-over or losing agency).
For the ritual we'll explore how we can support one another to meet the underlying core needs with play and devotional presence so that we can melt the armour and open more to love.
LOVERFLIX
The Wounding Archetypes
LOVE LAB
Shadow Alchemy Practices
TEMPLE RITUAL
Reverse Shadow Play
MODULE 4
Rupture Alchemy
Conflict will come. Rupture is inevitable in any relationship. The question is - will you let it make you or break you?
What if every rupture could become an opportunity for deeper intimacy, more understanding and wisdom? What if you didn't need to fear 'having the talk' but knew how to turn those crunchy moments into experiences that crack your hearts wider to each other?
In this module you'll learn to move through triggers with more love: to handle intensity, regulate yourselves and each other, and hold a boundary while still honouring the person in front of you. You'll gain some tools to help you in high-intensity situations and ways to move through rupture into repair with more ease.
LOVERFLIX
The Rupture-Repair Journey
LOVE LAB
Alchemising Intensity
TEMPLE RITUAL
Primal Play
MODULE 5
Loving Beyond Duality
Now that we've moved through the fires of defences and ruptures, we have more space to expand into the capacity of loving presence with one another. Here, we'll cultivate yogic presence with one another and create the energetic sensitivity to be able to truly see each other, to create a field where trust can be experienced.
When we're stuck in dual consciousness, there is a clear you vs me. When we enter the nondual, those boundaries dissolve and we see one another as part of the same whole, a mirror and a co-creating and co-evolving force. We'll discuss the philosophy of nondual relating as well as experience it for ourselves in practice.
This is where the awakened experience becomes felt and experienced together, where our relationship becomes a meditation on unity and a place to feel the infinite within the finite realms of our dynamic.
LOVERFLIX
Cultivating Deep Presence
LOVE LAB
We Consciousness
TEMPLE RITUAL
Love and Emptiness
MODULE 6 · FINAL RELEASE
Living as Awakened Love
In this final part of the journey, we see how the pathless path of the consorts evolves and emerges. Where everything that shows up in our love life is a reflection of our inner journey of self actualisation and union with the beloved.
There's no template for an awakened relationship, you get to write your own rules and to let the path emerge in it's own divine timing. We'll explore how the right orientation to the path, and the skills we have cultivated, can serve you for years and years to come.
We'll also offer you space to vision your souls perfect relationship, to let the next steps on the path emerge from the oracle of your bodies and to wrap up this journey inspired and ready to let this work support you to live as the awakened lovers you are.
LOVERFLIX
The Consorts Path of Living As Love
LOVE LAB
Embodying possibility
TEMPLE RITUAL
Visionary Intimacy
THE LIBERATED LOVERS JOURNEY
A continuous EXPLORATION through the
Three Gateways of Sacred Relating
Awakened Lovers is the first part of a 3-course series to become the ultimate lovers by awakening all 3 gateways. You can do each course on it's own or you can do all 3 courses for a year-long transformational process for couples who are committed to experiencing the most potent love available.
You can sign up for all 3 at the start, or you can begin here with Awakened Lovers and decide to go deeper after and enter the next gateways.
YOU ARE HERE
Awakened Lovers
The Upper Gateway
Truth, communication, presence, shadow work and pattern-breaking.
COMING SOON
Devotional Lovers
The Heart Gateway
Co-healing, opening the heart, and cultivating a devotional relationship.
COMING SOON
Passionate Lovers
The Lower Gateway
Sacred sexuality, play and polarity to master the erotic realms.
This is for you if…
- You're a couple of any gender, orientation or relationship style, and you know something deeper is possible
- You're on the spiritual path and inspired by Tantra, Yogic perspectives and the path of awakening. You don't have to be a 'tantrika' to do this course, but you're comfortable with spiritual concepts and discussions.
- You've dove into some personal development and spiritual practice before, being familiar with meditation, self inquiry and learning. Perhaps reading books, attending therapy, going to workshops or retreats. You're ready to go deeper.
- You're willing to choose truth over comfort and show up for a process that might be challenging (you know either way it'll be hard if you don't get the skills!)
- You have the capacity to commit to practice and engage with the content. Ideally a minimum of 1 hour per week.
- You are ready to unite your spiritual and relational path and to see what is possible in love and relating.
This is not for…
- Couples in major relational crisis: if you are near breakup and in near constant triggers, it's better to get 1:1 support first.
- People with 0 personal development or spiritual practice. We recommend to start with our mini course if you're completely new to this work for a taste, and try some practices like meditation or breathwork before diving into such an intensive course.
- You don't have the capacity to commit to practice and engage with the content. Ideally a minimum of 1 hour per week is required or for more intensive work then 2.5 hours per week.
- This is not designed for singles. While you could watch the content and learn, you need to practice and integrate the work. Some practices may work with friends but most require a pre-existing relationship with some level of commitment.
- Anyone who wants to stay comfortable or spiritually bypass. This path will ask you to step into the fires and commit to change.
Take the Journey
Feeling the resonance?
Ready to step into a new paradigm of love and relating together?
Start with Awakened Lovers, or pre-order all three gateways of Liberated Lovers and lock in the special discounted pricing.
While we launch, early birds get lots of hands-on support from us: your questions answered in the forum and inside the lessons, and two live Q&As a month in different time zones. Later this settles into one a month, so this is the time to bring your questions.
Pre-sale prices are available until Friday 23 October.
Awakened Lovers
6-Part Journey
$95 / month
on a 6 month payment plan
Or $519 pay in full
Full price after early bird: $649
- Introduction and 6 modules. Module 1 released on Monday 26th October and a new module released each week after that.
- Live Q&A twice a month (with 2 different timezone options), plus the online forum for Q&A and sharing between
- Payment plans over 3 or 6 months
- 14-day refund window if you change your mind.
Liberated Lovers
Full 3 course journey
$250 / month
on a 6 month payment plan
Or $1440 pay in full
Full price after early bird: $1800
- Awakened Lovers 6-part course as listed
- Devotional Lovers and Passionate Lovers as they are released (within 1 year)
- Live Q&A twice a month (with 2 different timezone options) during the launch periods, plus the online forum for Q&A and sharing between
- 14-day refund window if you change your mind.
Questions
When do I get access?
What happens after I enrol?
When will all the course content be available?
How much time does it take, and how do we choose our pace?
What if one of us is keener than the other?
Will this course always be available?
What kind of support will I get, and what if I can't make the live Q&As?
Can't I just learn this from a book?
Can I work with you one-to-one?
How is this different from the 7-Day Intimacy Challenge?
What are the payment options?
What is the refund policy?
What do we need to take part?
Not ready yet? Start here, for free.
Two ways to step onto the Liberated Lovers path before you commit.
FREE MASTERCLASS
The Liberated Lovers Masterclass
A 90-minute class with both of us: teaching on the three gateways of Sacred Relating, and a guided partner practice to try together. Watch it whenever suits you.
FREE GUIDE
The Liberated Love Principles
Our 9 Sacred Relating principles across the three gateways, with practices for embodying each one. A compass for awakening through relationship.
